Coping with Grief: Supporting Families Dealing with Dementia in Mannum

Written By Adele Wright

As dementia progresses, families often find themselves mourning the gradual loss of their loved one’s memory, personality, and abilities. This unique form of grief can be overwhelming, as it doesn’t follow the typical grieving process. Instead, families may experience what is known as "anticipatory grief" or "ambiguous loss," which can leave them feeling uncertain and emotionally drained.

If your family is facing this challenge, you are not alone. At Mid Murray Support Service, we understand how difficult this journey can be. Below, we have compiled helpful resources, local services, and strategies to help you navigate this emotional time.

Local Support Services in Mannum

Mid Murray Support Service Inc.

We provide a range of support services to the Mid Murray region, including assistance for carers and families. Whether you need advice or just someone to talk to, we’re here to help.

Mannum District Hospital

The Mannum District Hospital offers general medical services. Their team can provide you with information on local dementia support groups and counselling services.

Counselling and Professional Support

National Dementia Helpline

This free service offers advice, information, and emotional support to families and carers.

Carer Gateway

Carer Gateway provides practical resources, including counselling services, to support family members caring for someone with dementia.

Online Support Communities

Dementia Downunder

This online community offers a safe space for Australians to share experiences, seek advice, and find comfort.

Understanding Grief in Dementia Care

Anticipatory Grief

It’s natural to begin mourning the changes you observe in your loved one even before their physical passing. Recognising and addressing these feelings can be an important part of healing.

Ambiguous Loss

This type of grief occurs when a loved one is physically present but mentally changed, creating a sense of emotional disconnection. Understanding this concept can help you navigate these complex emotions.

Coping Strategies for Families

1. Open Communication

Talk openly about your emotions with trusted friends, family members, or professional counsellors. Expressing your feelings can help ease the burden of grief.

2. Participate in Support Groups

Joining a support group can help you connect with others who understand what you’re going through. Sharing experiences and advice can provide relief and validation.

3. Educate Yourself

Learning about dementia and its progression can help you set realistic expectations and prepare for the future.

4. Practice Self-Compassion

Be kind to yourself. It’s normal to feel a range of emotions, including sadness, frustration, and even guilt. Remember, you are doing the best you can.

You Are Not Alone

Grieving the loss of a loved one’s mind to dementia is a difficult process, but support is available. By reaching out to local resources and communities, you can find the strength and understanding needed to cope. At Mid Murray Support Service, we are committed to supporting families through every stage of this journey.

If you need assistance or someone to talk to, don’t hesitate to contact us. Together, we can navigate this path with compassion and care.

Disclaimer:

The information provided in this blog is accurate as of February 2025. It is intended for general informational purposes only and should not be considered medical or professional advice. Mid Murray Support Service is not a medical organisation, and we recommend consulting with healthcare professionals for specific medical concerns related to dementia care.

Adele Wright
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